Does Love Exist At Weddings?

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I have thought a long time about this blogpost. Does love exist at weddings? When you plan weddings for a living. One gets caught up in budget, finances, decors, brides problems, groom's response, money isn't enough, what will we do next. Is this pretty enough, good looks,  Learning curve. What does venue want? What does family want? What does the bridesmaids want? What do the groomsmen want? Gifts, presents, everyone wants something from the bride. When one runs a business, a wedding business you here it all. Can I have it? The other runs a makeup business, can I have it? What about photography? Can I have it? Hair salon? Can I have it? One thinks, does love exist?

Marriages age one of the most difficult things to plan. Not due to the actual wedding the event is like all weddings. It's the details. It brings out the want, the desires, the needs, the commitment, the relationship between the couple and every thing or person they know. If it goes wrong they blame their wedding planner. If it goes right the they credit themselves. 

The truth is a wedding is much bigger than the day of marriage. A wedding is like a balloon ride. Bigger than life.  Higher than we want to be, faced with all the blessings or curses you choose for ourselves along the way. Silly, thought I know. For others it might be a carnival cruise ride. Maybe, it's a roller coaster. With all the emotional ride of highs and lows. It is a test of how one gets along with people and believes in onself! No fear! Be Bold! Be Your Best Self!

Ones thoughts are questioned constantly. What is it you want? It will cost you!  The bride, the groom, the acts of marriage. Family, friends and those they meet along the way. That is one of the reasons their called Acts of God. The wedding planner is isn't responsible for the people you hire. She is responsible for the people she hires nor does she have to give you free things. However, when she is blessed with free gifts from vendors she just passes it forward. That's optional.

To answer the question: Does love excise at weddings? To answer I have to ask you; does love excise in your wedding?

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