Monday, February 16, 2015

Poison Apple What Color is Yours?

Hi there,


Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess she was fairer than any other. Her skin was as white as snow and her cheeks and lips as red as apple. She had one desire to meet and marry the prince of her dreams. Life isn't that easy, God gave her a mother that wasn't exactly happy with her choice. He was a brother from another mother. This lead her mother to try to make her not marry her prince. You see her mother had ideas of what her prince should look like. He didn't match her image of what he needed to be. Nor was he interested in her. All the other men she had brought home, flattered her and told her how beautiful she was. This young man had the ability to ignore her desires.


One day the mother tempted the prince by talking about the question of does size matter. This temptation was to lore the prince into the mothers chambers so the prince would not marry her daughter. The prince decided to ask the princess the question if it mattered to her then he would not marry her. The prince and princess were sitting on the porch of her house in the late afternoon, when the mother said to the princess. Tell that ugly guy to go home, the size is showing and it matters. "Don't touch him...what have you to been doing? I know you're going to get pregnant! I just know it." The daughter confused looked and the mom and said, what are you talking about? We are sitting here talking. My foot is touching his leg and I am barefoot. He is just sitting there.

Time went on and they continued to talk. As they got to know each other they decided to continue the relationship. She was really enjoying meeting all the new friends. How well educated and polite they were. However, realized the family of this young man were very out spoken. They were allowed to speak to each other with boldness and truth. If they didn't like something they just got to say so, not pretend that it was still good when it wasn't. The girl decided that was really comforting to her. She knew that when they said something they meant it. And when they said they would do something they meant it. This made them trust them even more. Sometimes their words hurt her feelings, she was raised with a mother all about feelings and little about action or truth. This she didn't understand or was able to control in her youth, she knew she hated it because she watch her dad, get physically beat up from it.

Anyway there where out and about one day when the your man asked her, "Does size really matter?" "What do you mean?", she asked If I don't make enough money to support us, would that matter?  What if we don't have a big house? Would that matter? If there is love, non of these things matter. I will go to work to help earn the money, if you can not support us. We can live together in a small house if we can not afford a large one. No size doesn't matter. This conversation took place after they both knew they loved each other. To this day she remembers this conversation knowing that that day she committed her heart to him like no other.

They young man had to graduate from college. They would continue for two years without dating. Rides home from school. Conversations on the porch, finally when she fully trusted that he was on her side she allowed him to date her. The temptations of the poison apple began. First it was little things like who was he going to talk to, when she was getting ready. Would he respect the dad? Would he respect the mom? How much does he love parent? God? Country? Would he fight for her honor? Would he feed her cloth her when she is sick? Ill?  How would he provide for her? Little by little each question was answered. Not once did he show any signs of wanting the apple. There is only one time that she recalls he failed in front of her. The question then was how could she prove it. There was not enough proof, evidence  to say he had failed. He never failed with the poison apple. However, he was human and failed to see the importance of always standing by his girl in front of her girlfriends. The test continued only making them stronger as a couple.

He didn't brings gifts to her mother. He didn't falter her and tell her that she was more beautiful, younger, smarter than her daughter. He didn't disrespect her father. He knew just what to say. They decided to get married, he had passed every test put before him. Will you let her spiral down all by herself or will you be there to catch her?




Then came all the test of planning their wedding. How would she handle the test put before her. Would she stay quiet or talk back and give her opinion. Would she start crying? How is she with budgets? How is she in stressful situations? Will they get along? Would they fight with the family members? MONEY? GIFTS? BUDGETS? Others wants for her wedding? Would she wear her hair up or down? Would she be a "GOOD WIFE"? On and on like a carousel ride? Or is she drama? How strong is she? Questions? Questions? Questions?

Now the time when you both have to decide? What are your priorities? Will it be a house?Children? Expensive Wedding? Career? Money? Positions? Honeymoon? Church Wedding? Indoor or Outdoor Wedding? How tired? How many fights will the couple have before the wedding day?

Children? Expensive Wedding? Career? Money? Positions? Honeymoon? Church Wedding? Indoor or Outdoor Wedding? How tired are you? How many fights will the couple have before the wedding day? How many fights, during the reception, ceremony, honeymoon? will you stand the test of time? Sweetheart, Darling, Baby, Honey? Not tonight? Ice? Baby Ice?

How fun it is got get married and plan for the future. How real it is to life in the reality your decisions and planning make. What color apple is your temptation?

Be blessed. Call MK Pure Diamond Events to help you will all the details of your wedding day.










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